Be true at the beginning.


My entire life I have been chastised, talked about and judged because I was always one to open up early. I never quite understood why? Like I knew the reasoning from the people who judged me but to me, their reasoning didn’t make sense. I was even turned down on several dates because the woman … Continue reading Be true at the beginning.

The Earthling and the Martian


Long time ago and child was born. A beautiful little girl who had dreams of falling in love. She would watch movies about fairytales and read books about prince charming overcoming odds that the average person could not face. In all of these stories there was always a damsel in distress and a hero that … Continue reading The Earthling and the Martian

Being at the bottom is not always a bad thing.


I have had this conversation with countless friends, family and even strangers. When I bring this topic up I always get weird looks and its understandable. Our entire lives we have factored being on top as the way to go and being at the bottom was wrong. "You need to be the best this. You … Continue reading Being at the bottom is not always a bad thing.

Love is to be respected, not controlled


Earth, wind, water and fire are the greatest forces on our amazing planet. It brings life as well as takes it away. It can be as beautiful as it can be ugly. The earth doesn’t try to control these powerful forces but instead allows them to shape it into the magnificent beauty that we see … Continue reading Love is to be respected, not controlled

Loving yourself pushes you forward!


In my 33 years of living, I have been places that many haven’t been. I have been in situations that many haven’t experienced. I have also accomplished things that many haven’t accomplished. In that same breath, I have done things that damaged me. I have made choices that wasted time and burned bridges. I have … Continue reading Loving yourself pushes you forward!